Most of my friends are too busy to hang around lately since they all either have their own projects to see to or going off on dates with their girlfriends. Being one of the few remaining guys from my batch who are still single, that sorta poses a problem for me since it's boring to eat meals alone -_-. The only reason this post came to be is because I had to eat by myself for the 4th consecutive night!
The other remaining bachelors from my batch have their own story to tell on why they are still single; there is the guy who is afraid to talk to girls, the one who was dumped 2 years ago but still hasn't gotten over it, the one who waited for a girl for 5 years and is still in limbo waiting for her response, and then there is me, the guy who has a lot of girl acquaintances but still avoids being in a relationship (most of them are in relationships anyways, I find those types to be better conversationalists. They're not that self-conscious compared to the single ones, with a few exceptions).
Don't get me wrong, I'm not a player (although my best bud's gf thinks I do seem like one if she didn't know me better >_<). There are a lot of reasons I suppose to why I'm still single. My grandma even asked me once whether it's because I'm just not interested in girls. That is definitely not one of the reasons!
I don't really think about it much anymore, even though I do get bugged by my family about it a lot. I just sorta started thinking about it after I went to my friend's acquaintance's wedding last Sunday. The marrying couple were both the same age as me and look where they're at. My mom would be more than happy to matchmake me if I ever let her, I'm most certain of that but I'm not really in that desperate a situation yet =P I'll get my ducks in a row and when the time is right, I'll find someone. |
OK you re off the hook with me. When the time is right , the right girl will come along. You still have to think what kind of qualities you want in a life partner and, more than that what kind of life partner you want to be .